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The Many Faces of Love  

Love.. what is love? A lot of people shared their views to what Love really is
or at least what Love is in their eyes. Perhaps love is just an illusion. A strong illusion
especially for those who are searching for a purpose of life. Is love an answer? Love can be wonderful
special
plicated
a distress
a gift
a curse
a tragedy
and Most of all
an experience.
Love is a mysterious and a plicated force. What do a person mean when they say they love someone? Love is many different things. Each of us have our own understanding of Love is
and most of the time we base our definitions from feelings and experiences. The book defines love in many ways. "It is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties." It can be an affection and tenderness felt by lovers. Love is the object of attachment
devotion
or admiration.
Just when we thought we finally grasp what love is
somebody asks:
"Does anyone really know what 'LOVE' mean? I believe I have a True love
but 'True love' is always hurt
isn't it?"
I scratches my head with this thought and began to wonder. What is the answer to this? "This I have to know!" I said to myself. I looked in the mirror and asked "Is it a true love when you know you want to live with this special person for the rest of your life? Have we reached 'true love' when we are ready to give everything away towards our subject? Or maybe when can go as far as to sacrifice ourselves for our love? What about love as an obsession? Is that possible?
"But isn't love suppose to be an obsession? If it is not
then you'd have to rationalize. If you rationalize then it's not love
because there is always a better rationalization."
"I think the "in love" phase is obsessive but according to Williamson (and backed up by my paltry experience)
love does not involve the ego
is selfless and the opposite of obsession."
According to Marriane Williamson
the author of "A Return to Love
" there is a "holy love" and a "special love." "The latter type is the obsessiveone; finding that one 'special' person absorbs _ALL_ your attention."
So who is right and who is wrong about love? There is no wrong answer. Love is many wonderful things. Love may not work out all the time but it leaves you a special sort of feeling
like nothing you have ever imagined. Is love a purpose of life? I think are life will be dull without it. But is it necessary? Important? It is a part of life
and forever it will be a part of us.

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"Love is not thinking about your happiness but making others happy." -anonymous
"Our hearts are created to Love." -E. Atienza
"Love is like a roller coaster
it has ups and downs."

"Love doesn't make the world go around
Love makes the ride worth while." -unknown
"Money will buy you sex but not Love." -Simon Vainrub
"The more you cry for the person you really love
the more you can understand real love." -Tsuchida Tomomi


Love.. what is love? A lot of people shared their views to what Love really is
or at least what Love is in their eyes. Perhaps love is just an illusion. A strong illusion
especially for those who are searching for a purpose of life. Is love an answer? Love can be wonderful
special
plicated
a distress
a gift
a curse
a tragedy
and most of all
an experience.
Love is a mysterious and a plicated force. What do a person mean when they say they love someone? Love is many different things. Each of us have our own understanding of Love is
and most of the time we base our definitions from feelings and experiences. The book defines love in many ways. "It is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties." It can be an affection and tenderness felt by lovers. Love is the object of attachment
devotion
or admiration.
Just when we thought we finally grasp what love is
somebody asks:
"Does anyone really know what 'LOVE' mean? I believe I have a true love
but 'True love' is always hurt
isn't it?"
I scratches my head with this thought and began to wonder. What is the answer to this? "This I have to know!" I said to myself. I looked in the mirror and asked "Is it a true love when you know you want to live with this special person for the rest of your life? Have we reached 'true love' when we are ready to give everything away towards our subject? Or maybe when can go as far as to sacrifice ourselves for our love? What about love as an obsession? Is that possible?
"But isn't love suppose to be an obsession? If it is not
then you'd have to rationalize. If you rationalize then it's not love
because there is always a better rationalization."
"I think the "in love" phase is obsessive but according to Williamson (and backed up by my paltry experience)
love does not involve the ego
is selfless and the opposite of obsession."
According to Marriane Williamson
the author of "A Return to Love
" there is a "holy love" and a "special love." "The latter type is the obsessiveone; finding that one 'special' person absorbs _ALL_ your attention."
So who is right and who is wrong about love? There is no wrong answer. Love is many wonderful things. Love may not work out all the time but it leaves you a special sort of feeling
like nothing you have ever imagined. Is love a purpose of life? I think are life will be dull without it. But is it necessary? Important? It is a part of life
and forever it will be a part of us.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
"Love is not thinking about your happiness but making others happy." -anonymous
"Our hearts are created to Love." -E. Atienza
"Love is like a roller coaster
it has ups and downs."

"Love doesn't make the world go around
Love makes the ride worth while." -unknown
"Money will buy you sex but not Love." -Simon Vainrub
"The more you cry for the person you really love
the more you can understand real love." -Tsuchida Tomomi