中英双语文章 双语美文：真正的自我 从不会被弄丢

双语美文：真正的自我 从不会被弄丢  

"Finding yourself" is not really how it works.,“找回迷失的自我”并非正确的思考方式。,You aren't a ten-dollar bill in last winter's coat pocket.,别把自己当成一张十美元的钞票，隐藏在去年冬天穿过的大衣口袋里。,You are also not lost.,你也并没有迷失自己。,Your true self is right there,,你真正的自我就在此处,buried under cultural conditioning ,,它被深深的埋藏起来了，在它之上覆蓋着文化规训,other people's opinions,,他人的界定,and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a kid,还有你孩童时期得到的模糊的教训,that became your beliefs about who you are.,正是这些成为你对自己的认识,"Finding yourself" is actually returning to yourself.,“找回迷失的自我”其实就是回归自我,An unlearning, an excavation , a remembering who you were,未受教化的，等待你发觉的，如同一段模糊的回忆一般的自我,before the world got its hands on you.,在世界磨光你的棱角之前的自我